In a selfie-obsessed age that promotes unrealistic and unattainable perceptions of body image, sexuality and femininity Tara O is the debut author of Wildly Irresistible – 6 keys to becoming the happiest (and hottest) woman you know. It is her unique take on how women can become totally alluring by discovering their feminine essence and harnessing its natural power. It’s about learning to feel more and think less by paying attention to internal intuition and worshiping the body’s wisdom.
“Being irresistible is about unlocking your confidence, so that you feel happy, healthy and sexy. It’s an intoxicating yet effortless vibe that will magnetise people to you. The power to heal, to feel whole, to feel love is already inside of us,” said Tara.
“I’m huge believer in prioritising your intimate relationship. In fact, apart from self-love and care, a healthy, loving and connected relationship is right on up there. That’s why I think it’s super important to spend quality time with one another.”
For Tara O planning a trip or even a weekend away, is not only a great escape from ordinary life, it can also be the energy jump-start she says your relationship may need. Plus, she mentions it gives you time to just be together away from the house, and piles of unfinished domestic projects and to-do’s and have some (often) much needed fun.
Here she shares her thoughts on a recent break to Queenstown…
Recently my partner and I downed tools for two weeks and escaped to New Zealand. A destination I was hanging out to visit and I wasn't disappointed.
Having spent the previous two months bound to my computer emptying the last of my heart and soul into my debut book Wildly Irresistible, I was feeling drained, over whelmed and fatigued. The trip was exactly what the self-love doctor ordered and I recharged and reloaded totally absorbed in New Zealand’s natural beauty.
Tomek and I stayed at Hotel St Moritz in Queenstown and it was divine! It overlooked ice caped mountains and the gorgeous Lake Wakatipu. The suite was larger than our apartment and we took every opportunity to soak in the outside hot tub for two.
What I really loved about Queenstown, was that it has something for everyone.
We visited gorgeous wineries and ate antipasto until our buttons popped, we got our thrills with adrenaline pumping outdoor sports, we took long, beautiful hikes making plans and holding hands. It was seriously good.
Queenstown is really just hop, skip and jump away from Sydney, yet it felt like we were on another planet entirely. I fell in love with Queenstown and fell even more in love with my man.
So don’t hesitate, get a mini vacation or trip planned now. Time away is the perfect chance to rediscover one another again and to remember what you adored about each other in the first place.
My top tip: As soon as you get home, create a date for another romantic escape or adventure to look forward to.
Wildly Irresistible is a compelling guide that every modern woman can benefit from and is bound to spark conversations and social debate. A fun way for women to start changing their lives and ‘love their sexy self’.
Tara O’s book is now available on iBooks (Apple), Kindle (Amazon), Google Books and Google Play. For more visit her website